“All time you've spent, all places you've been to, yet you’re still single. Why have you not found someone?”
Whether they speak them or otherwise, people always aim these words at me. Comments about my sex life always aggravate me since I never complain about being single in the first place. People believe that kids about finding “the one” makes me ignorant, especially like a millennial within the prime of my entire life. Well, let me explain why I don't care.
Being single provides me with a great advantage: the prerogative to outrageously do without limits and boundaries. I actually do whatever I want without the reminder that she's in your own home. I'm liberated to be friends with as many girls (and guys) as I want without being preached by what loyalty is. I focus less regarding how to satisfy people and do why is me happy. I’ve learned to understand who I truly am and embrace myself casually.
I don't want to seem like I must act a certain way to gain attention or perhaps be untrue to myself to please someone else. If a person likes me, they'll approach me. If a person loves me, they will accept me like me because I live authentically. When I finally meet “the one,” I will not expect her to change either. I'll love who she already is perfect for I treasure who I already am.
I more often than not find something lovable in everyone I meet. Everyone has qualities which make them appealing to me. I readily embrace people for who they really are. I'm never completely certain of my feelings, and sometimes ponder whether it's love or lust, however i have a lot love to give. Performs this make me shallow? No, it does not.
Imagine each time I like it then I should've place a ring on it. I would be having relationships with hundreds of girls and boys up to now. I'm sorry, Bey, however i gotta disagree. Until I finally understand my feelings clearly, though, the finger will stay bare.
In reality, I am not ready for a serious romance at this time. I am still looking for my method to a financially stable life. I'd never ask anyone to invest in a lifetime with me considering the way i currently live my entire life. I can not force anyone to live a life that's not prosperous, and i am not quite living in milk and honey as it stands. Before I pledge myself to someone, I want to be ready to provide.
No, I haven't met her yet… because I'm choosing to not meet her today. People might have different opinions on my decision to hold back for love, and that's OK. For the time being, I'm deciding to live my life and enjoy it without searching for “the one.”
Baby, if I'm not yet ready for myself, i quickly don't want you to be prepared for me, either.
